I just had a birthday, June 14, I know that would seem to make me 44, But I refuse !! I don't feel old, at least not in my head, my body has different ideas at times, LOL But my kids have their own friends and besides it shouldn't be up to them to babysit me or have to keep me company. Anyone with kids understands this. Butthey always come first. I can't change who I am, and I'm a mom above all else.